Secondly, having done it, I think I can offer some (possibly) useful advice. So here are 5 things I'm glad I did, or wish I had done:
Really book any venues as soon as possible (people have said this, but it is crucial)
Before discussing logistics with other people, make sure both of you know what things the other one of you wants lots or would hate.
Don't believe that weddings have to cost a fortune; mine and senji's was about 1.5k in total, and most of that was the alcohol my father brought that we were still drinking this year...
Do, however, be clear what things you want to spend money on and what things you care about less.
Do not let well-meaning people tell you what to do, unless what you actually want is to try and make them happy by letting them organise your wedding. It is your wedding; do it your way.
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Date: 2005-04-11 06:15 pm (UTC)From:Secondly, having done it, I think I can offer some (possibly) useful advice. So here are 5 things I'm glad I did, or wish I had done: